A year since I’ve written, and I know because it has been a year since I had the freckle removed. This morning was my annual skin check which made me realize it has been a year. How the heck did that happen? And more importantly, what the heck happened?!? How do you measure a year? (Rent is one of my all-time favorite shows, but that’s another story.)
So, how do you measure a year?
Milestone birthdays? I turned forty in April. I was determined not to dwell on getting older, but to revel in the joy of all the people who love me. My husband who knows more than anyone that what I wanted was a party all about me. My brothers and sisters who helped him make it happen, right down to the decorations, games and cocktails. My friends who came and laughed and celebrated, including my college friend who flew in from England for a 24 hour speed visit. That weekend alone could last me a year.
Memorable vacations? We had a vacation of a lifetime in February when the five of us took a week long cruise in the Eastern Caribbean. New England weather tried to hold us back, but once we finally arrived it was like no other time away. We loved it so much we booked another while onboard. I hope the second can compare to the best vacation ever.
Saying goodbye to a friend? This summer I had to put on a happy face when neighbors of ours moved to California, which had been their dream since the day we met. Although happy for them, it was so hard to say goodbye to a friend who I completely trust, enjoy and respect. It was a reminder of how people pass through our lives, touching you along their way.
Moments of joy with your children? Standing at the side of a pool watching your child struggle to simply finish his first ever 200 meter race and seeing the sheer elation on his face as he climbed out of the water. Listening to your eight year old play Beethoven on the piano for 80 people. Seeing your first born become a teenager and every single day see something new in him.
Dancing in the kitchen. Motorcycle rides. Watching grass grow. Good books. Laughter. Smiles. Joy.
I guess the answer is... lots of ways. If you are lucky.
